Attributes To Assess in a Potential Life Partner
Intelligence
Education level
Emotional stability
Sympathy/empathy
Political awareness/alignment
Optimism/hopefulness
Cultural similarity
Reliability
Physical fitness
Attentiveness
Physical affectionateness
Emotional expressiveness
Kindness
Playfulness
Questions To Ask Potential Partners
What did you want to be when you grew up?
What kind of relationship did your parents have?
What are your dreams for the future?
What makes you happy?
Are you taking any prescription drugs?
Where did you grow up?
What are some of your favorite movies and why?
What books are you reading right now?
What were you like in high school?
What do think is your best trait? Your worst trait?
How important is physical fitness to you?
How do you like to stay in shape?
What goals and projects are you working on right now?
Do you want to have children?
Questions for Later-Than-First Date
What traits attracted to you to your last partner?
Did you feel loved as a child?
Did you get enough love from your parents?
What was your childhood like?
Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
When did your last relationship end? How long did it last? Why did it end?
What book(s) have affected your thinking the most?
What do people usually not realize about you?
What’s the biggest misconception about you?
Do you have any recurring dreams?
Who do you admire?
In what ways are you different from most people?
What goals have you set for yourself that you’ve fulfilled?
Are there any pivotal events that changed the course of your life?